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Discipline as the Ultimate Self-Care
On where 'discipline' is misunderstood, the culture that produced the misunderstanding, and how it became radical to choose to be great. Misunderstanding Discipline Sitting in my doctoral training, I brought up the importance of learning to be disciplined and to discipline the mind. I would beg you to try — to say that word in a room full of people wired to preach compassion, and watch what happens. Half of the room flinches. The other half go quiet. Some look at me as if I a
Mar 2110 min read


Values vs. Committed Actions
Discover the powerful difference between values and goals—and why it matters. This blog explores how values guide your actions, provide meaning, and help you stay grounded when life doesn’t go to plan. Learn how to align your daily choices with what truly matters through the concept of committed action. A must-read for anyone seeking clarity, purpose, and emotional coherence in how they live.
Feb 265 min read


Depression & the Body
Depression isn’t just in your head—it may be in your lifestyle. Backed by science and existential insight, this article explores how movement can be a powerful, first-line treatment for depression.
Feb 264 min read


Authenticity: misconceptions
Authenticity isn’t about finding a fixed “true self.” It’s about staying honest in the moment, responding to life with values, not rigid roles. This post challenges the myth that to be real, we must be the same everywhere—and explores how true authenticity lives in our flexibility, our freedom, and our ongoing becoming.
Feb 265 min read


Process over Content, Process over Outcome
Explores the difference between outcome obsession and valuing the process, through personal stories, ACT insights, and the neuroscience of flow.
Feb 127 min read


The AI Busyness Paradox
Technology is designed to give us our time back—to reduce the work and energy required to produce an outcome. And yet, rather than stepping back into the life we imagined we’d lead if we had more time, we expand our working capacity to meet the new limits of efficiency. This is the paradox of busyness: when efficiency increases, work does not shrink—because we keep adding to it.
Jan 256 min read


Lonely in the crowd
In a hyper-connected world, loneliness is rising. Drawing on Martin Buber’s I-It vs I-Thou philosophy, this article explores how digital life, social media, and surface-level interactions leave us unseen and disconnected. When we reduce others—and ourselves—to roles and content, we lose real connection. This post is a reflection on how to reclaim presence, depth, and human encounter in an age of distraction and hyper-evaluation.
Jun 16, 20254 min read


Sleep shapes your world.
When you're tired, your world gets smaller. We go about the world living in different worlds, and the only way we experience our worlds at all is through our bodies. Sleep is not just a luxury, but it is critical to our perception and our ability to go about the world. As our experiences - experiences of thought, emotion, interaction, relationships, (anything really) - is dependent on our body, there is an argument for taking care of your body.
Jun 12, 20255 min read
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